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Have you ever with someone who was really far – how to get open over time?
I'm looking for a quick way to handle this. Be this stuff takes time. I open it in spurts and is always a great conversation when it does. I feel he has much to say, but has a difficult time decomposition of saying it. I know he cares, but sometimes it is still difficult. I figured I do.
Hello my friend … This is a bit frustrating, right? You have to decide which open in time or is really just a private person? You probably already have a good idea why that might be so private, but you are wondering what is going to take to make you more open ip? Be open and social as you, is it going to be a problem in the long term? All I can say is that my wife is a pretty private person, but from the first day it was someone I could share anything with. She was able to tell me all sorts of things I had never shared with anyone. Yo, I'm a total open book, I put everything out there and she likes that too. So my point, I think if after a short period of time you see the confidence or not. If it had not then its time to re-evaluate some things. That's my two cents! Dan